Mindless Arguments in Relationships
Many couples do it, not knowing what would they get as an end result. Maybe your relationship is going through the same problem. But what if there is a way that can effectively reduce these mindless arguments in your relationship and live in healthy love life? With one small change, your relationship can become centered once again.
We have to start asking questions to ourselves that, Why does this happen? What are the main reasons which started the argument in the first place? How can we stop it from growing more? The real answer for this is EXPECTATIONS.
The nature of expectations varies from person to person. Some may expect more from their partner while some may expect less.
Some may expect their spouse to clean up the house, and they, in turn, may expect you to have breakfast on the table every morning.
Just like opinions, everyone has expectations in their thoughts which may not always match up to the other person’s thoughts. This is the birthplace of bickering.
There is a simple solution to this problem! When we focus on the differences in expectations rather than appreciating the things which our partner does right, fights and mindless arguments will always take place.
When we don’t appreciate our partner for what they do for us, it will never increase the love in our relationship, instead, it will act as a fire!
Your wife cooking food for you or your husband going out every day to earn money for the family is already a big thing to appreciate.
Arguing on little things can drown your relationship in the ocean of hate while appreciation on little things can elevate your relationship to the skies of love.
So if you pay attention, there’s always something to be appreciative about!